How to encourage self-directed play
Boredom is an uncomfortable feeling that never-the-less has some real value. Instead of rushing to fill boredom, help your child tolerate it and develop their own creativity.
Helping kids structure and balance their time
Figuring out how to balance all of the activities and obligations, while also getting enough sleep and some time to recover, is tough. Help your teen preserve some unstructured time.
The joy of being present together
Our culture puts most of the focus on do-ing, but be-ing with our kids is essential for their, and our, mental health.
Savor JOY with your kiddo
Cultivating joy as a family is important – it is a glue of good feeling and shared memories that keeps your goodwill strong.
Savor JOY with your adolescent
Cultivating joy as a family is important – it is a glue of good feeling and shared memories that keeps your goodwill strong.
Your child needs autonomy
Autonomy – the desire to make decisions for oneself – is one of the fundamental human motivations. Do you allow your child enough?
Attune deeply to build connection
The first step in connecting with another person is non-verbal. Learn to slow down attune physically and emotionally, to calm heart rate, breathing, and more.
Play! (Even for adolescents)
The world is getting much more complex for adolescents, but continuing to find opportunities for play with your teen is one of the best parenting moves you can make.
Play your way to family harmony
The world often feels serious and busy for adults, but making time to play with your child is one of the best parenting moves you can make.
Recovering from failure and disappointment
The bitter feelings that arise from failure and disappointment are some of the most difficult for our children – and all people – to deal with. Help them meet these experiences with a growth mindset.
Recovering from failure and disappointment
The bitter feelings that arise from failure and disappointment are some of the most difficult for our teens – and all people – to deal with. Help them meet these experiences with a growth mindset.
Managing Frustration and Disappointment - So Hard!
The frustrated and embarrassed feelings that arise from failure and disappointment are some of the most difficult for our children – and all people – to deal with. Help them meet these experiences with a growth mindset.