Resisting perfectionism & celebrating your child's quirks
Perfectionism has been rising among young people, which is bad news for mental health. One of the most helpful gifts you can give your child is the room to be themselves, warts and all.
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When you have spooky thoughts about your child
All parents at times have fears that something is "wrong" with their child's behavior. Here's what to do when this happens.
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Encouraging creativity for life
The real benefits of creativity kids are internal: getting into the flow state, developing flexibility, trusting their inner voice, growing in competency, and realizing their own vision, among others.
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Dealing with your child's fears
Childhood can be a particularly fearful time. Help your child express, manage, and overcome their fears.
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Fantasy, dress-up & play-acting are good for kids!
Besides being lots of fun, imaginary play and dress up have important cognitive and emotional benefits for our kiddos. They deserve not only your full support, but engagement as well!
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Adolescents & Identity Exploration
Adolescents are trying out a range of personas and roles as they explore their own identity. Supporting their explorations will allow you to know your child more deeply.
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Your adolescent’s changing fears
In adolescence, your child's fears begin to shift. Social concerns, peer pressure, and academic and extracurricular performance all rise in priority. Help your child express, manage, and overcome their fears, so that they don't go underground.
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Avoiding Power Struggles
Kids feel better, learn more, and are more cooperative when they feel both secure that you are there to help, and that they have some say in their own lives. Finding the right balance of parental authority and child autonomy is an ongoing practice of attunement and communication.
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Interacting with Authority Figures
Your child isn't going to click with every teacher, coach, or administrator. But they can learn important social skills about how to navigate a system and deal with authority figures.
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Always repair ruptures
All relationships experience ebbs and flows in connections, and at times, emotionally distressing conflicts or ruptures. Practice relationship repair with your kiddo, to keep your connection in great shape.
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